Transform Your Life With Steve and Pete

Creating Harmony Through Confrontation

March 11, 2024 Steve Chua and Pete Cafarchio
Creating Harmony Through Confrontation
Transform Your Life With Steve and Pete
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Transform Your Life With Steve and Pete
Creating Harmony Through Confrontation
Mar 11, 2024
Steve Chua and Pete Cafarchio

Transformation Tip: “All we are saying is give peace a chance” - John Lennon 

This week's focus strength: Harmony 

  • Generally look for consensus 
  • Does not like conflict - looks for areas of agreement 
  • Peacekeepers + Peacemakers 

This strength is not weak it is vitally important in relationships and teams. 

Harmonizers Needs: 

  • Need the ability to acknowledge when a confrontation becomes unhealthy 
  • Need shared values
  • Need to be on teams with a shared vision 

Blind spots when overused:

  • Practicality from others can become frustrating 
  • Sometimes for the sake of peace, they sacrifice progress
  • Avoid conflict 
    • Sometimes conflict is needed!

Management 

  • Find other harmonizers - you will work best with them 
  • Stretch outside your comfort zone and voice your honest opinion  

Transformation Application: Identify an opportunity where you can move from a peacekeeper to a peacemaker. If you are not a harmonizer, tell one that you know that you appreciate them.

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Show Notes

Transformation Tip: “All we are saying is give peace a chance” - John Lennon 

This week's focus strength: Harmony 

  • Generally look for consensus 
  • Does not like conflict - looks for areas of agreement 
  • Peacekeepers + Peacemakers 

This strength is not weak it is vitally important in relationships and teams. 

Harmonizers Needs: 

  • Need the ability to acknowledge when a confrontation becomes unhealthy 
  • Need shared values
  • Need to be on teams with a shared vision 

Blind spots when overused:

  • Practicality from others can become frustrating 
  • Sometimes for the sake of peace, they sacrifice progress
  • Avoid conflict 
    • Sometimes conflict is needed!

Management 

  • Find other harmonizers - you will work best with them 
  • Stretch outside your comfort zone and voice your honest opinion  

Transformation Application: Identify an opportunity where you can move from a peacekeeper to a peacemaker. If you are not a harmonizer, tell one that you know that you appreciate them.

Connect On Social:

Podcast Facebook Page


Steve Facebook


Steve Instagram


Steve LinkedIn


Pete Facebook


Pete Instagram


Pete LinkedIn