Transform Your Life With Steve and Pete
Transform Your Life with Steve and Pete provides practical wisdom to help you discover your identity, reject false mindsets, and align with your destiny and purpose. Steve and Pete are both executive life and leadership coaches with years of experience helping people become their best selves.
Transform Your Life With Steve and Pete
SUMMER RE-RELEASE: Conquering Comparison
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Steve Chua and Pete Cafarchio
Learning how to overcome the negative effects of comparison is imperative to aligning with your identity and thriving as your authentic self. In this episode, gain practical tools to help you conquer comparison and find joy in being you!
Transformation Tip: You were born an original. Don’t die a copy.
Tools to break comparison:
- Rather than compare, seek connection
- Share experiences
- Don’t be afraid to be vulnerable
- Find authentic relationships
- Accept your limitations as a gift
- They will keep you humble and grounded
- Don’t look at your limitations as a disability
- Monitor your empowerment
- When you are functioning in your true identity/authentic self you will feel aligned and things will fall into place for you
- Compare yourself to yourself
- Internal validation
- Cultivate your inside environment
- If there is something in your life that speaks to you and makes you feel good - write it down and revisit them when you’re feeling external pressure of comparison
- This will remind you who you really are and the greatness within
- Stand your ground
- Remind yourself that other people’s reactions have nothing to do with you. Don’t listen to their opinions.
- As you start to break the mold culture has put you into, people will notice and might have a negative reaction to that and try to put you back in your “place”
- Stand your ground!
Transformation Application: Each day find something to celebrate in someone else and tell them!
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